At GetLusty, we care about your sex. This is something people ask us all the time. How do I find time for sex? True, finding time for sex in your busy schedule can be difficult. That's why we recommend scheduling sex. But when you have it, do you ever feel like you can't concentrate? There are a million other activities going on. As this weekend is coming up, we want to encourage you to be mindful during your dates and sexual experiences -- even if they don't necessarily include sex.
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What we say is, dedicate time! And make sure it's without distraction. Here, our Amber Woods talks about the importance of sex without distractions. Things get sexy
Imagine this, you and your lover are stark naked. Things are getting hot and heavy; caressing, kissing, nibbling on ear lobes and foreplay. Before you know it, you’re in her, she’s on you and you’re building your rhythm. It’s getting great. Then boom, the phone rings. Hello? Its reality calling, you’re wanted back in the game of life. Don’t worry about your orgasm; you’ll be too busy to get back in the mood.
Ladies (and gentlemen), I don’t know about you but I have a busy life. School, work, family, future planning, bills, etc. It’s stressful but sometimes all you need is a nice ramp to relax you, boost your confidence and get you back in the game.
Then life happens
However, it won’t work if you let life pound your door down before getting down and dirty. There is nothing more unsexy than a phone ringing when your mid-coitus. Especially when it’s the ringtone you personalized for your mother, boss or lawyer. Do yourself a favor and turn off your phone.
Ok, now imagine the same scenario. You and your lover are getting hot and heavy, kissing and sliding into some yummy foreplay. Before you know it, you’re joined together below the hip, you have your rhythm going. It’s great, but then you find yourself thinking about what you need to buy at the grocery store, the load of laundry you still have to do, dinner and oh it’s Wednesday so your favorite show is on.
Don’t get distracted You have become distracted and are off in your own world while your partner is left to row the boat by his/herself. I am guilty of this as well. It’s the unsexiest thing to think about anything and everything but being in the moment, and rocking your partner’s world. Give yourself a break, the laundry will get done, dinner will get made. You will get to the store and yes, it’s Wednesday and your favorite show is on. Not to worry—that is what the DVR is for.
There are tons of things out there to distract us and keep us busy but when it comes to you, your partner and your sexy time, do yourselves a favor and shut out the noise. Life will be waiting when you get back from your sexcation. Sexcation: The time you take out for a little bit of, “self love” or sexy time with your lover.
Remember to keep the love; it depends on you both.
This is a guest post by our very own Crimson.Crimson is our resident BDSM fetish expert. If you don't see Crimson out dining with her adoring boyfriend, you'll find her reading books on innovation or finance. Crimson is currently finishing off her Bachelor's, she is passionate about food, photography, music and especially sex--and she's not afraid to talk about it. With everyone!
Have story ideas? Get in touch with Crimson at amber@getlusty.com.
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